2 Samuel 1:11

Then they tore their clothes, and each man loaded his donkey and returned to the city.

Then Tamar put ashes on her head and tore her long-sleeved garment which was on her; and she put her hand on her head and went away, crying aloud as she went.

Then the king arose, tore his clothes and lay on the ground; and all his servants were standing by with clothes torn.

Now Mordecai came to know of all that had been done. And he tore his clothes, put on sackcloth and ashes, and went out into the midst of the city and cried out loudly and bitterly.

Yet the king and all his servants who heard all these words were not in dread, nor did they tear their garments.

And tear your heart and not your garments.” Now return to Yahweh your God, For He is gracious and compassionate, Slow to anger, abounding in lovingkindness, And relenting concerning evil.